The movie Boys
Don’t Cry was a film I probably won't ever forget. The movie was
uncomfortable at times but at the end made me feel sympathy for Brandon Teena.
The movie which was based off of a true story truly depicted the idea of reinventing one’s self. Sexual identity
crisis is not a concept most people can relate too. Watching Brandon Teena grow from
the beginning to the end was a very interesting development. Brandon is the self-made
man; he goes from being a woman and changing his whole identity to fit the
profile of a man. Brandon is portrayed as a strong, confident, male. He is seen
the chivalrous stranger who had a very charismatic effect on people due to high
amount of faith he had in himself. Everyone fell in love with him; he instantly
sparks a friendship with John and Tim. Brandon knew how to treat women with
respect. He's truly dedicated to being a male. He only gets very jittery when
others question his sexuality. The element of confidence is portrayed when he
fights other men and tries to get Lana sexually. He is determined to make a
better life for himself as a male. He seems happier and more at peace with
himself as a male Even when tested and broken down while he is raped, he still
allows Lana to help him be a comfortable in his own skin even though he was not
an actual boy.
When
Brandon is shot, its like hope is lost for the transgender community. Not only
did Brandon suffer so much for his identity but also was brutally raped,
degraded, and beaten to the small little girl he once was. They took his
virginity in a brutal scene one so vulgar and violent that I will never forget
watching it. It was painful to see a person who was so determined and bold to
be killed in the eyes of his loved ones. Brandon lived a life many didn’t; he
lived on the edge but as the person he truly wanted to be even if it did not
fit in with society’s stereotypes.
The murder scene was something hard for me to
watch and something I will never forget again. It made my sympathies for
transgender grow even more than before. Ultimately Brandon’s desire was linked
to the danger of his life and his desire to be a transgender caused him to be
killed by two people he called his friends. Their hatred for transgender
ultimately killed Brandon Teena; the girl and boy version of him.
The
other week in sociology we were learning about people who are transgender and they are seen as
a very different species compared to homosexuals. It is very hard for certain
people to understand the struggles they deal with. People act very violently
towards transgender. A woman and her
boyfriend were accompanied by a friend in McDonald’s, the girls thought that a
girl in the facility was hitting on the boyfriend. When the girl seemed to have
followed the boyfriend into the bathroom, the two other girls pounced and
literally beat who they thought was a girl. This other woman in the restaurant
was a transgender and she was violently beaten. Transgender people are having a
very difficult time being accepted by society. This film and these articles
share the story of Brandon Teena makes me get a closer look to the struggle
people that are a transgender are faced with on a daily basis. I commend
Brandon for the strength to set for on his own path and march to the beat of
his own drum.